Thursday, November 17, 2011

I shall call this "sick week"

Well with band competitions over we have been able to start having the "older" Cook boys more often!  It has been such a blessing to, they are so good with their little brother.  Since they had the day off school Monday we were able to have them from Saturday until Monday.  And it was a good thing to!  Sunday I woke up (well crawled out of bed around 10:30) not feeling that great.  Which with this pregnancy isn't that odd.  I didn't necessarily feel sick just drained; my "tummy" never seems to feel to right with the lovely contractions I get to have (yes they are still here and not wanting to go away).  James made his usual weekend breakfast for us, I love the potatoes he makes, but I just wasn't in the mood to eat.  So I decided when K.C. went down for a nap that I would to.  Well it ended up I had the dang flu! I don't think I have had it since I was like 14!  I never got "morning sickness" with K.C. or this lil guy so this really sucked! It didn't last that long though and by that evening the flu part of not feeling good went away, all thanks to the fact K.C. was kept busy by his Daddy and bro's.  He did occasionally have to come in to give me some loves though.  Finally around 11:30 I felt good enough to eat, nothing like a few crackers and an apple :). James told me I better eat and drink more water, but nothing really sounded good so I didn't.  But around that same time my "tummy" started to ache but not stomach flu ache, this just felt different, so I went ahead and took my medication for contractions in hopes that it would just go away.  James decided to sleep in another room cause he did not want to catch whatever I had, I didn't mind I knew I would probably be doing a lot of tossing and turning anyway.  I really felt like I should go in and get checked but didn't want to feel like I was over reacting. So I decided to wait the hour I was told to and see if the contractions would go away.  I went ahead and took a bath and tried to get some sleep.  I woke up still feeling contractions around 2 and did some more tossing and turning.  The contractions were not getting any better and for the first time they actually felt like real labor contractions.  I finally called the labor and deliver and told them what was going on, I wasn't sure if what I was feeling may have just been a result of being sick that day.  They told me to go ahead and come in to make sure that everything was all right.  So, not really wanting to, I went and woke up James to have him take me in (this was about 3:40am ish).  The nice thing is we had the boys so we didn't have to worry about what to do with K.C. (especially nice since my parents think they have to go to WA to visit with other family for the whole month..... who do they think they are anyway! :) ) 
So we get to labor and delivery and they get me all hooked up to the monitors and sure enough I am contracting pretty regularly. (I forgot to add that the pills I took at midnight were my last ones! another reason I felt the need to go in). The doctor comes in and decides to run a bunch of test to find out what is going on.  He does another fetal fibronectin test, a strep B test, and checks my cervix.  My cervix doesn't appear to have changed since the last time I was in (10 days prior), it is still soft and opened a finger tip wide (which is something you like to hear more along 36 weeks and not 26 weeks) and appears to not have gotten "shorter".  So that was good news.  While waiting on the other test I get to have a lovely IV, yeah!  (ya... not!!) Since I hadn't really eaten anything in the last 24 hours my sugar was low and I was a bit dehydrated.  So I got to have a liter of Dextrose 5 and a liter of normal saline.  I now know why and appreciate that our local ambulance keeps all their bags of fluid on a warmer.  The fluid was so cold and from my elbow down my arm was achy and cold.  The doctor also gave me 20 more milligrams of the nifedipine.  He let me know that getting some sugar and fluid back into me along with the medication should ease the contractions.  He was right!  While waiting for the test results I was finally starting to fall asleep.   And after what felt like forever waiting for the test he finally came in and said that everything came back negative, YEAH!!  So we know that there should be no baby for yet another 2 weeks!  So after being in the hospital for yet another 4 or 5 hours of this pregnancy we were able to go home.  On the way home I made sure to make James stop at the pharmacy to pick up my prescription that had been sitting there for.. oh just a few days :)  The pour guy still had to do a full day of work!  I on the other had been able to go back to bed until 1 when the boys had to go home.  I am so glad that my step sons are such a big help when it comes to helping out with K.C.

Almost 28 weeks!

Early Tuesday morning I get a text from my babysitter saying her whole family was sick!!  That was a panic!  With my parents in WA we really don't have anyone else to watch him on short notice.  But James did some thinking and called a friend whoes wife runs a daycare in Homedale.  But her rates are good and we both have to be at work so Homedale it was!  It was kinda scary cause this was his first time K.C. had to go to a "daycare".  I got to go pick him up after work and found out that he had a great day!  He even made himself a friend.  He had to go on Wednesday to and yet again he did great.  I was so thankful that he had some where to go.  With me on reduced hours I really can't take off any more time at work, and James is always busy! 

Well poor Keegan was another victim of the flu :(  not sure if Cameron ever got it.  We think that K.C. may have had a touch of it, he had some bad diapers over the weekend and ended up with a lil rash but for the most part he was pretty good.  And then my poor hubby ended up not feeling well on Wednesday evening.  He didn't end up getting the stomach flu like the rest of us though, lucky guy!!  I hope that this is the end of the flu for our family though!!

So I think it is time to start potty training K.C.  He has decided to become a stripper!  The other morning James went in to get him out of bed and he was butt naked!  Oh and he decided to go #2 in his crib for Daddy.  It was really hard not to laugh at this and be thankful I was at work :)  He has also pulled this lil prank for the babysitter to, but not the #2 thing just #1 in his playpen.  He thinks it is funny to take his pants off and then his diaper at home to.  I have been starting to ask him if he has to go potty and then taking him to the bathroom so he can sit on the toilette but he has yet to actually "go".  The cutest thing was what I got to see this morning when I went into his room to get ready for work and kiss him goodbye.  There it was this cut lil "full moon" sticking straight up in the air.  Not sure when during the night he decided to sleep in his "birthday suit".  But I ended up having to wake him up so that I could change all his sheets and blankets and of course put clothes back on him so he could get some more sleep in a dry bed.  But it really was so cute.... I had to take pictures :)  He is going to love me when he gets older!!!  But oh how I LOVE all my "mommy moments"
 Oh and Mommy thought that she would go ahead and trim K.C.'s hair....  Well James at one time mentioned using the clippers.....  well that wasn't the best idea, the first thing I used wasn't even cutting his hair so I went with a shorter thing on the clippers... ya BAD idea, bye bye to all ok K.C.'s locks :(

Friday, November 4, 2011

Another check up today ended in labor and delivery......

Well I had another routine check up today.  It started out pretty good, other then the fact that my contractions have not let up.  It was decided that we would go ahead and up the dose on my medication and bring me down to 30 hours a week at work instead of 40. My belly is still measuring bigger, (I will take that as a good thing). Then she decided to check me to see what my cervix was up to.  Well, it has started to soften so she sent me over to labor and delivery to get my cervix measured.  At this point there was talk about possibly starting steroid shots to start to prepare the baby for a possible early delivery, oh and no more work.
So I got to go and sit in that cold delivery room (that you don't notice is so cold when you are IN labor) they hooked me up to be monitored.  Contractions where still there, baby still doing good and being very active.  The did a cervical ultra sound to measure my cervix and good news!!! My cervix is at a good length. So no chance of an early delivery in the next 2-3 weeks :)  My cervix may be soft but since it is at a good length there isn't a need to start the steroid shots yet. 
So for now I am still good to be at work but only at 30 hours a week.  I just continue to ask for all your prayers.  I would like it if when it's time for this little guy to come that when I get to go home from the hospital he will be able to come with me. I wish this could be a simple pregnancy (like it was with K.C.) but that doesn't seem to be an option.  I can't control what my body decides to do but I can control my attitude.  So I will continue to be hopeful and positive, things really could be much worse.  God is in control!!

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Busy month!

Well the Cook family has had a busy last 2 weeks......

Before all my issues came up we were able to go and see Keegan's last marching band competition of the year at BSU.  Schools from all around were there.  The Weiser band ended up placing first in there division!! Congrats to Keegan and the band.  Keegan looked like a marching pro!  Keegan was also able to get his deer the last day of the season, unfortunately Cameron didn't get his.


James was lucky enough to take a couple days to go fishing with his dad Flip. They met up with our neighbor who runs a fishing guide business.  They had a great time.  James was able to land 2, he lost a few more plus some gear.  He was nice enough to bring my Dad one of the fish.  Dad said the fish tasted great!!

Well I have made it to 25 weeks!!  Only 15 more to go.....   The contractions are still here though.  Somedays are better then others.  It doesn't take much for me to get tuckered out.  The pills have pretty much been doing there job. I almost went a whole day with out taking one, but by the end of the night I started to feel them enough to take a pill. I haven't felt the need to go back into the hospital so that is good.  There is still the possibility that they could turn into pre term labor. They could just go away or I could deal with them for the next 15 weeks.   I enjoyed being at home and got lots of sleep, sometimes up to14 hours in a day.  I am back to work now and pray that things will all be fine and the contractions wont flair up.  

25 weeks
In other baby news my sister Kristy and her husband Darrin welcomed a baby boy early Saturday morning!!  Trenton Daniel Longoria.  My sister was in labor for a whole 2 hours!!  They had a nice home birth.  How freakin lucky is she?!!

Well K.C. has been keeping me pretty busy.  The other day I went into his room to get him from his nap and he was standing there buck naked!!  He pointed to his blanket and said "wet, peed"  yup sure enough there was a big wet spot.  But the diaper and nighty he decided to take of were perfectly dry. I guess I should consider myself lucky that is all that he did in his crib.  
So this year instead of carving pumpkins I let K.C. paint one.  Letting him paint is always fun.  I have no problem with letting him make a mess!  he actually did pretty good though.
I decided to get creative with a pumpkin this year to and made an all from scratch pumpkin pie.  The crust came out pretty good.  The pie did to but since it was made straight from the pumpkin it was a bit grainy for me.  I think next time I make one I will try to puree it a bit more and see what else I can do to make it more smooth.  But it didn't go to waist!!  I also roasted the seeds!  That is my favorite part of Halloween.  I love fresh pumpkin seeds!
For Halloween we went to the trunk or treat held at the Parma MotorVu.  K.C. was dressed up as a BSU bronco mascot.  I waited to long and our choices were a bit limited.  But he was still cute!!  He did pretty good, he wasn't to sure of holding his bag but once he realised that they were putting candy in it he was not letting go! 

On other baby news I was able to find the swing I wanted on craigslist for cheap!!  K.C. decided that he would test it out for his brother.  Now all I really need for the baby is some more clothes.  With what I have got and some hand me downs from my sister in law it looks like he will be good for NB and 0-3 months.  I would like to get some cloth diapers for the boys to use while I am home.  So if anyone was wanting to get us a baby gift that would work :)  Other then that I see my midwife again on Friday! 

Oh and K.C. got a new pet!!!  He got 4 lil gold fishies!  And loves them a lot, his favorite thing to do is feed them.